We all have a life to live, people to love, mistakes to make and lessons yet to be learnt no matter the previous ones. But below is a list of signs and reasons why you should take to your heels and get far, far away from that girl /guy.
“not hundred metres though, because in this case, the distance may be too short…. ”
1. BAD MANNERS OR RUDENESS
It really can get so frustrating, being with a partner whose manner is rotten to the core. This includes, rude outbursts anytime they are offended, publicly or privately, slamming the door in your face at the least provocation, hardly apologises or mostly the last person to do so. No one wants to and even deserves to live like that.
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2 ALWAYS BUSY:
You are either the last on their list of priorities, or never even on it. They might tell you a hundred times, about how much they care and love you, but when they tend to be almost always busy, especially in instances, you both know they can at least fit you in that tight schedule. Please try to talk it out, but if it doesn’t work especially in courtship, then think twice before heading into it full-time. No matter how much they make, you can never be happy with them because you will forever feel undervalued.
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3. TOO MONEY CONSCIOUS :
We all try to make money, in ways we know how, to better our ways of living. But when your partner is too conscious of money, the next big thing to rake in cash than spending real and quality time with you, then think twice. It doesn’t last, ever!
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4. GAMBLING :
When your dream partner is always gambling (mostly guys), always after gaming offers, involving money, and too interested in offers that involves small capital, with “supposed and intended” big wins, betting on almost anything, then double check yourself and your heart and make a safe part. Gambling may seem to be about money a lot of time but a gambler has one main problem, “lack of self discipline and control”
5. NAGGING AND PAST REFERENCES :
When your partner always complains about the least thing they are not pleased with, updating issues you both had in the past instead of leaving it where it belongs ….“in the past” then you have to let go before they completely destroy your life. There is no happy relationship without some semblance of peace. Therefore whenever you feel like your peace is threatened by these things and repeatedly, just let go.
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6. TOO MUCH TALKING :
If your partner blabs about almost everything, even things you tell them to friends, family or colleagues, sometimes going the extra mile of talking about the things that happens between you two then fear the worse and let go. It is not worth it.
7. PHYSICALLY VIOLENT :
Though it’s mostly men who beat up their partners, women sometimes do same. Even in our modern society, the rate of domestic violence especially against women is still rising. But no one wants to be anyone’s punching bag for life, therefore when you notice that tendency in your partner, please think twice. They may not have been that way with you before but when they physically abuse someone else when provoked, it may soon YOUR TURN š.
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The bottom line is not everyone you go out with is bound to end up with you. So when there is something you can’t imagine yourself tolerating for life, let go. Don’t be too clingy for your own well-being or theirs.
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